Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Healing Words




HEALING WORDS
By Barbara Dahl, BSN, RN, CHTI

How can I glorify the program in words?  If only I were a poet.  Poetry is the program at Shands hospital, University of Florida, where patients, medical students, and staff write poetry and get in touch with the deeper story.  Medical students find that poetry puts them in touch with emotional experiences that the culture of medical school fails to address or even allow for in that stressful, pressurized learning environment. 

Poetry is one way of communicating.  Another way is Hakomi, “often described as assisted self-discovery.”  Roxanne Peterson, assisted by Lynn Accetta, led attendees at the Healing Touch Regional Meeting in Olympia in Hakomi exercises designed to deepen awareness.  Both the poetry program and Hakomi stress the communication skill of active listening.  The “Hand on the Back” exercise allowed words to surface.  These were then repeated back and participants described the value of feeling listened to.

The PBS film, HEALING WORDS: Poetry & Medicine, featured Dr. John Graham-Pole whose vision resulted in bringing the arts into Medicine at Shands, and John Fox, founder of the Institute of Poetic Medicine who might sit bedside and listen to patients tell their stories and then repeat them back in poetic form or lead a group in writing poetry.  One deeply compelling segment featured a Vietnam vet who, because of what was required of him in the line of duty, didn’t feel worthy to receive treatment.  His poetry brought it out, brought his anguish to the surface and, as in the case of so many others, dramatically changed his life and moved him into healing.  The film “affirms that art can build compassion between doctor and patient and facilitate healing among the most critically ill.”   This 60-minute documentary is an emotional experience for all involved including the viewer.

Healing Touch can be a powerful communication tool in accessing the deeper story.  The practitioner has a responsibility to actively listen and acknowledge what they’ve heard.  Hakomi and poetry provide practitioners with skills to become better, more compassionate listeners.

Side bar:  Sharon Fletcher, RN, CHTI, Spokane, has been accepted into the Institute of Poetic Medicine and shares the following poem titled, Nursing Care:
           
            Nursing once was a physical thing.
            Full of endless tasks, timelines, and tedious details.       
            They taught us the delivery of care.
            The Doing.
            So afraid of making mistakes, losing control, feeling.

            Somewhere, after countless hours of doing,
            I discovered the need, the joy, the power
            of Being.
            A touch, a word, a smile, a fear, a moment
            connecting us heart to heart,
collapsing the space between
doing and being.
Sacred caring delivered.           

Sharon Fletcher
11/03/07

Read John Fox’s poem, When Someone Deeply Listens to You, on his website:
www.healingwordsproductions.com for PBS site to purchase DVD.
More about Hakomi at www.seattlehakomi.com

Read Barb’s Blog on the Aging Adventure